Self-Lust: The Retreat
is coming to Tulum, Mexico

December 7-12, 2023

“This retreat was absolutely life-changing. Being in a space with so many incredible people, making friends, and having the space to experience true confidence in myself, my body, and my sexuality was one of the most incredible experiences I've ever had.”

-2022 Self-Lust Attendee-

One spot left!

There is just one private king suite left at Self-Lust 2024. Book today and you’ll get all of our amazing, all-inclusive amenities PLUS an extra five images from your boudoir shoot, an 80-minute rejuvenating facial, and a bottle of massage oil to keep the self-love going.

Book your spot today!

Grab your passport — we’re going to Tulum!

Tucked onto the Caribbean coastline of the Yucatán peninsula, Tulum combines turquoise ocean, ancient ruins, and lush jungle to make the perfect winter retreat.

The venue for Self-Lust 2023 is nestled in the jungle and blends Moroccan and Mexican design into a truly stunning destination. Each suite comes with a soaking tub or jacuzzi, and the property features two swimming pools.

In December, you can expect daily highs in the low-to-mid 80s, and lows in the mid-60s, so grab your bathing suit and strip away your winter worries.

You deserve something special.

  • Boudoir

    Learn to see your body in a whole new light with a private, one-hour boudoir shoot with Annika Roser of Ma Chérie Studios. Your fee includes your shoot time, plus a downloadable gallery of 10 images.

  • Community

    Make lifelong friends in a compassionate, curious, judgment-free atmosphere. No competition, just support and enthusiasm for your authentic self.

  • Sexuality Education

    Cassandra from Feminist Sex Ed will lead three workshops focused on body kindness, sexual pleasure, and discovering your desires — all without a hint of shame.

All-Inclusive Amenities

Your registration fee to Self-Lust 2023 includes all expenses (except airfare and passport fees) so that when you’re here, you don’t have to worry about a thing! Tap each + for a preview of what’s included with your fee.

  • Our on-site private chef will prepare three delicious and healthy meals each day, accommodating dietary adjustments and allergies as needed.

  • Your registration fee includes a 50-minute deep tissue massage, right in the comfort of your suite.

  • Start your day refreshed and centered. Two poolside restorative yoga classes will help you exhale and relax.

  • No car, no problem. We’ll have a shuttle waiting to bring you from Cancun International Airport to our venue.

  • We’ll take two group excursions out of the venue to go explore Tulum’s beautiful nature and deep history.

  • A one-hour boudoir session with up to 10 edited digital photos from your shoot.

  • We’ll dive deep into confidence, pleasure, and exploring ourselves with three sexuality-focused workshops.

  • A gift bag filled with more than $400 worth of goodies is the icing on the cake.

The Suites

These luxurious suites will make for the perfect backdrop for your getaway.

Each of the 13 king suites comes complete with an ensuite bathroom with a tub and shower and unique designer touches.

All-Inclusive Registration:
$400 deposit + 9 payments of $400

Book Your Suite

What Past Attendees Have to Say

  • "The retreat was so amazing, relaxing, and educational. I was nervous going into it but by hour one I was at ease, meeting new people, and enjoying myself. I was sad that it was over! It felt like we had all known each other longer than three days. "

    Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "It took only one moment at the retreat to know that something magical and safe and sexy was in the air! In all honesty, this retreat has actively changed my life. And I now continue forward on my sexual-health journey with support from Cassandra, Annika, and so many people that I met during my time at Self-Lust!"

    Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "The retreat was somehow both a breath of fresh air and a snuggly hug. It felt like our little oasis from the world. I honestly felt more relaxed than I have in months, and I really appreciated the time and space to reflect, rest, and think about my relationship with myself. On top of all of that, we got to hang out with such a genuine, kind, talented group. Dreamy!"

    Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "It was absolutely life-changing. Being in a space with so many incredible people, making friends, and having the space to experience true confidence in myself, my body, and my sexuality was one of the most incredible experiences I've ever had. "

    Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

It’s your turn to be your first priority.

Whether you want to improve your relationship with your body, explore your desires without judgment, or just treat yourself to a good time, Self-Lust is here for you.

I could not have asked for more. I made incredible friends and gained a new confidence that I rarely have. Thank you!!
— Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

You deserve this.

Join us for Self-Lust 2023 and find the community & support you’ve been craving.

Sign-ups open January 23, 2023, exclusively to our waitlist.