You deserve to bask in your gorgeous glow.

Sign-ups for Self-Lust 2025 are now open.

Your heart has been waiting
for this moment.

At Self-Lust, we know that you’re already gorgeous — and we want you to believe it, too!

Whether you’re just setting out on your self-love journey or you’ve been feeling yourself for years, Self-Lust is a transformative investment in yourself.

Every aspect of the Self-Lust experience, from the activities you’ll do to the friendships you’ll build, are there to support you. Your confidence is worth cultivating, and we’re here for you every step of the way.
All you have to do is RSVP “hell yes.”

Self-Lust 2025 is scheduled for February 27-March 4, 2025.
We can’t wait to see you there 💖

Meet us in breathtaking southwestern Utah.

Self-Lust 2025 will be surrounded by natural beauty — the iconic red rock cliffs of Zion National Park, the picturesque forests, and you!

Our venue is located just 30 minutes from Zion National Park, and 20 minutes from Snow Canyon State Park and the Red Cliffs National Conservation Area.

This captivating wonderland will be our little oasis away from it all.

You are supported and loved, and this retreat is going to remind you of that. You are deserving of love and kindness exactly as you are.
— Paula, 2022 & 2023 Attendee

The magic of Self-Lust is waiting for you.

  • Sexuality Education

    Cassandra from Feminist Sex Ed will lead us through playful and powerful workshops, all without a hint of shame. From sexual self-confidence to loving your body, this year’s Self-Lust will feature a variety of workshops to choose from, so you can build your own schedule.

  • Community

    Make lifelong friends in a compassionate, curious, and judgment-free environment. No competition — just support and enthusiasm for your authentic self. You’ll be welcomed from the moment you enter the groupchat.

  • Body Love

    Annika from Ma Chérie Studios will help you see your body in a whole new light. Whether you build a boudoir shoot into your retreat schedule or you join the sexy selfie workshops, you’ll leave Self-Lust with a deeper appreciation of your gorgeous self.

“The retreat was somehow both a breath of fresh air and a snuggly hug. It felt like our little oasis from the world.  I honestly felt more relaxed than I have in months.”

Past Retreat Attendee

Self-Lust is for you if…

  • You want to love your body and embrace your sexuality more fully

  • You crave a community of nonjudgmental people who will keep it real and celebrate your wins (big and small)

  • You know that it’s time to stop letting shame run your life

  • You want to learn how to release perfectionism and cultivate playfulness

  • You’re ready to prioritize your joy, but need some help along the way

What’s Included

We’re doing things a little differently for Self-Lust 2025. Tap each + to learn more about what’s included in your registration fee.

  • At Self-Lust 2025, we’re offering three suite types: private king suites, private queen suites, and shared bunk-style suites. Each room comes with an attached bathroom and is designed for your comfort and relaxation (even the shared rooms!)

  • We’ll have delicious food available all day long. This year, we’ll have a continental breakfast bar for slow and luxurious mornings. Then, we’ll have group meals for lunch and dinner. Your registration includes all meals, snacks, and beverages. We’ll stock the pantry based on your preferred foods.

    Have questions about allergies or dietary accommodations? Email us!

  • No car, no problem. We’ll have a shuttle waiting to bring you from Las Vegas International Airport to our venue.

  • A gift bag filled with more than $400 worth of goodies is the icing on the cake.

  • Paint your nudes or make a vision board — whatever you choose, you’ll have the chance to nurture your creativity while getting to know your co-attendees!

  • We’ll head out of our venue to explore southwestern Utah’s natural beauty! Whether you’re a casual observer of nature or a practiced hiker, you’ll have the chance to appreciate our gorgeous setting.

  • We’ll dive deep into confidence, pleasure, and exploring ourselves with sexuality-focused workshops.

  • Want to be able to take spicy selfies when you’re at home? Annika will teach you how to strike a pose so you can remind yourself of your hotness once you’re home.

What Past Attendees Have to Say

  • "Self-Lust cracked my world open in all the best ways and helped set me on a path to living a life more fully aligned with myself and my own desires. If you’re wondering if you should take the leap, if something about this experience is whispering to you – GO. Take the invitation. Say yes to yourself. This experience will change your life if you let it."

    Theresa, 2022 & 2023 Attendee

  • "It took only one moment at the retreat to know that something magical and safe and sexy was in the air! In all honesty, this retreat has actively changed my life. And I now continue forward on my sexual-health journey with support from Cassandra, Annika, and so many people that I met during my time at Self-Lust!"

    Kellie, 2022 & 2023 Attendee

  • "This retreat was a true celebration! Of myself, of the women around me, of our shared humanity. I have never found another environment like this. Cassie and Annika do all the work to set up a place that the attendees feel safe to be completely ourselves, while at the same time exploring and meeting new sides of ourselves, all with people who are happy to accept you just as you are."

    Self-Lust 2023 Attendee

  • "The retreat was so amazing, relaxing, and educational. I was nervous going into it but by hour one I was at ease, meeting new people, and enjoying myself. I was sad that it was over! It felt like we had all known each other longer than three days. "

    Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "It was absolutely life-changing. Being in a space with so many incredible people, making friends, and having the space to experience true confidence in myself, my body, and my sexuality was one of the most incredible experiences I've ever had. "

    LY, Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "The retreat was somehow both a breath of fresh air and a snuggly hug. It felt like our little oasis from the world. I honestly felt more relaxed than I have in months, and I really appreciated the time and space to reflect, rest, and think about my relationship with myself. On top of all of that, we got to hang out with such a genuine, kind, talented group. Dreamy!"

    JW, Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

  • "You, your body and your heart need this and you might not even know it. Just trust me and I promise you’ll thank me later."

    Self-Lust 2023 Attendee

Choose Your Oasis

  • Shared Room — Twin Bunk

    Make some new besties in a shared suite! You’ll have a twin-sized bunk bed, and you’ll share a bathroom with your roommates.

    SOLD OUT!

  • Shared Room — Queen Bunk

    A shared room with a little more space to sprawl out! You’ll get a queen-sized bunk bed and you’ll share a bathroom with your roommates.

    THREE LEFT!
    Total Fee: $2300
    Payment plans available

  • Private Suite — Queen

    Want some extra privacy? Private queen suites come with a queen-sized bed and an en suite bathroom, just for you.

    ONE AVAILABLE!
    Total Fee: $3300
    Payment plans available

  • Private Suite — King

    Treat yourself to full luxury. This suite includes a king-sized bed and en suite bathroom, all to yourself. It also comes with a boudor session.

    SOLD OUT!

Want to add a boudoir session to your itinerary?

Add a 30-minute boudoir session to your retreat itinerary for $500 and get all of the fully-edited images from your shoot!

After the retreat, you’ll receive the digital files of all of the images from your shoot. For a 30-minute shoot, you can expect to receive between 15-30 images — a savings of nearly $2,000 compared to à la carte pricing!

Up to 7 add-on shoot sessions are available, so we recommend reserving your shoot at registration. Boudoir add-on fees may be rolled into your monthly payment plan.
King suites come with a shoot included.

We’re here for who you are.

Body-Positive

LGBTQ-Affirming

Kink-Positive

Polyamory-Friendly

Body-Positive • LGBTQ-Affirming • Kink-Positive • Polyamory-Friendly •

We know that
you deserve to feel good.

Cassandra and Annika began working together in 2019. Each of their businesses is founded on the belief that you’re worthy of pleasure, just as you are today.
Together, they’re the powerhouse team behind the Self-Lust and Reignite Retreats.

It’s your turn to be your first priority.

Whether you want to improve your relationship with your body, explore your desires without judgment, or just treat yourself to a good time, Self-Lust is here for you.

I could not have asked for more. I made incredible friends and gained a new confidence that I rarely have. Thank you!!
— Self-Lust 2022 Attendee