The Details

February 22-27, 2023 • Quepos, Costa Rica

What’s Included

No matter which suite option you choose, here is what’s included with your fee:

  • Comfortable, luxurious accommodations so that you leave feeling totally rested

  • Roundtrip ground transportation between SJO and the venue

  • Meals prepared by an in-house chef to nourish your body and soul (all meals at the venue and during group excursions are included)

  • A half-day tour of a private rainforest reserve

  • A half-day catamaran excursion with snorkeling break

  • A 60-minute couples massage

  • A 1-hour private couples boudoir session (with 10 digital images) to remind you of this incredible experience (a $1600 value)

  • Three sex & relationship workshops designed to improve your communication, cultivate pleasure practices, and deepen your connection (an $1800 value)

  • Yoga classes to help you reconnect with your body

  • A swoon-worthy gift bag filled with $400+ worth of goodies (including sex toys, books, body care items, and more)


Reserve Your Spot

Payment plans available.

The fee to reserve your suite at Reignite is $2000, then 10 monthly payments which vary based upon suite type. You can also use Zip by QuadPay, or PayPal Credit to split up each payment into smaller amounts.

Explore the suite options.

What You’ll Cover on Your Own

  • Airfare to/from SJO 

  • Hair and make-up styling for your boudoir session, if desired

  • Additional private consults with Cassandra

  • Additional images or products from your boudoir session

  • Any additional excursions that you decide to take during your downtime (night tour of a nature reserve, plantation tour, horseback riding, zip-lining, surf lessons, paddle boarding, parasailing, ATV rides, kayaking, whitewater rafting, jet ski tour, waterfall tour, and sportfishing)

  • Any additional spa treatments that you book

Reserve Your Spot

Want to upgrade your experience?

You can add on each of these elements for an additional fee.

  • Sex & Relationship Consults

    Want to take a deep dive into a challenge facing your relationship? Curious about how you can improve something specific? Schedule a private 90-minute consult with Cassandra to talk it out (and get resources to keep the learning going).

    Cost: $120 per 90-minute partner consult

  • Additional Images

    Still craving more shots from your steamy boudoir session? Your registration fee comes with 10 digital images, but if you want access to more or if you want a printed product, Annika can work with you to create the bundle of your dreams.

    Cost: Varies based upon product type

  • Spa Services

    Your retreat fee includes one 60-minute couples massage, but if you want really indulge during your downtime, you can book additional spa services! Our partner spa offers massages, facials, and body treatments – and all can be done at our venue!

    Cost: Varies based upon service

  • Excursions

    Quepos and the Manuel Antonio region offer tons of outdoor activities. Whether you want to chase waterfalls, go ziplining, learn to surf, or go parasailing, there’s something for everyone. We can set you up with additional excursions to enjoy during your downtime!

    Cost: Varies based on excursion type.

  • Hair & Makeup Styling

    You’re already perfectly camera-ready, but when it comes time for your boudoir session, you might want to go au naturel or full glam. We’ve teamed up with a hair and makeup artist to help you create the look of your dreams for your photoshoot. No liquid eyeliner stress here!

    Cost: Varies based upon services booked

  • Room for Three

    Triads are welcome at this retreat! If you want to book the retreat for your throuple, we’ve got you covered. We recommend that triads book premium suites to be as comfortable as possible and to have maximum possible space. This surcharge covers food, transport, and excursion costs.

    Cost: $1,800 in addition to your base room fee

More than two?

Triads are welcome at Reignite: The Retreat! We recommend that throuples book a premium suite so that you can be as comfortable as possible. Triad bookings have an additional $1800 fee on top of your room rate — this covers additional food, transportation, and excursion costs.

Due to space restrictions, we can only accommodate three people per room.

Cancellations & Refunds

Due to the limited capacity of this event, all deposit payments for Reignite: The Retreat are non-refundable.

  • If you cancel your reservation in writing before 6 months to the event start date (by August 22, 2022), you will receive an 80% refund on your monthly payments.

  • If you cancel your reservation in writing within 5 months of the event start date (by September 22, 2022), you will receive a 70% refund on your monthly payments.

  • If you cancel your reversation in writing within 4 months of the event start date (by October 22, 2022), you will receive a 60% refund on your monthly payments.

If you and your partner separate, or you wish to cancel your registration later than October 22, 2022, then it is your responsibility to find another couple to take your place…or bring along someone else! Although Reignite is intended for partners, no one can say that you and your BFF or latest Tinder date can’t enjoy a nice couples massage. If you need to make adjustments to your reservation, please email Info@SelfLustRetreat.com.

If we need to cancel the retreat due to COVID-19 or a weather emergency and you are unable to make the rescheduled date, you will be issued a refund.

Fuel your passion.

We designed the retreat schedule to help you and your partners reconnect and reignite. Are you ready to see sparks fly?